Experience

I often identify myself, with some pleasure, as fat. Just as often, there's a flurry of anxiety around my use of the word, as if I am judging myself harshly in some fashion.

Most people who find out about my faith and my job ask me the same questions; Things like, "Do you go to church?" or "Don't you think God doesn't like it?" or "How

I fell in love at work once.I wasn't emotionally prepared for my feelings. I didn't know how to categorize them, or how to take care of myself. I figured I was good

I've had a lot of different experiences with relationships where one person makes more money than the other; sometimes I was the flush one, sometimes I was the dependent. There's a lot of

I was totally stumped about what to wear to the Folsom Street Fair. I stood in my room in my favorite push-up bra, hands on my hips, staring into the closet as if

One of the questions I hear regularly is a sneering one asking why someone would book an escort rather than casually date. While we know that people have multiple reasons why they seek

A few years ago, I went to a big gay wedding in Black Rock Mountain, Georgia. Several hours north of Atlanta, the wedding was in the Appalachian mountains during Halloween weekend, when the

When Tizzy mentioned an event called "Arse Elektronika" (Sex, Tech Conference Arse Elektronika Kicks Off in S.F.) a few weeks ago, I knew I had to attend some of the

I’ll admit that the trek to 1620 Polk Street is not an easy one, especially via public transportation. However, the two bus + BART combination that landed me at the doors of the

Recently, I was re-watching a much-revered recording in which Sonya Renee and Andrea Gibson perform Christian Drake’s “Bloodbath," though problematically gender-essentialist (I don’t define a woman as someone who regularly menstruates)

In a dimly lit room with an assortment of restraints in the background, one woman is being anally penetrated while her friend kneels on the Oriental rug nearby. A rough rope snakes between

I always meet incredibly handsome people online. Their gender doesn't matter and it's never a problem for me to pull the hottest people in my circle (and sometimes outside of it). But being

San Francisco’s Lusty Lady Theater closed this past Monday, after decades of providing budget-friendly naked entertainment to the masses. It’s been over a year since I submitted my resignation, but I

Be still my Midwestern heart. (Just to clarify, I’m unfortunately not Midwestern. Just my heart.) Long known as ‘The Windy City’, Chicago escorts’s rich history of flesh trading, bossing, madaming, and

In just a few days, San Francisco will lose an institution. On September 2, 2013, the Lusty Lady Theater, a fixture since the 1970s, will shutter its peepshow windows for the last time.

After trying to meet people through free social networking websites, I finally got wise and paid to be on a niche site- the kind that says it’s tailored “just for you."I

Being a sex worker who lives with severe post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), panic, and anxiety has been...interesting. The man I planned on marrying knew all of what I lived with and didn't

I'm supposed to be here writing about sex and dating. I should actually probably engage in one or both before writing about it, but if I wait until I go on a date,

As they clap their palm firmly down and make that delicious slap that makes hearts (and groins) all over the world quiver, you moan out a single, heady note, “Oh, DADDY!” In scenes

Welcome back! In the first article of this series, I began by discussing how you can take the C’s of successful polyamory and use them to solidify and spice up your monogamous

The jury is still out on whether or not humans are naturally polyamorous or monogamous beings. Are we more like domestic animals, tending to multiple partners and relationships of significance in one lifetime?

Many curious people outside the escorting business have asked the question of why do women decide to work as escorts? However, equally as fascinating are the reasons why men hire them. While it's

No matter how many clients I have charmed the pants off of, no matter how at ease I feel with talking to strangers, and no matter how much I mentally prepare myself, there

The hustle involved in all freelance jobs can start to wear a gal down after a while, and working as an independent escort provider is obviously no exception. There's the gnawing uncertainty of

What's so interesting, even fascinating, about feet? Checking with Wikipedia, the definition of Foot Fetishism, foot worship, or podophilia is "a pronounced sexual interest in feet. It is the most common form